How To Die As A Catholic
| Traditional Roman Catholicism |
John 11:17-35 "Then when Jesus came, he found that he [Lazarus] had lain in the grave four days
already...Then when Mary was come where Jesus was, and saw him, she fell down at his feet, saying unto
him, Lord, if thou hadst been here, my brother had not died. When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the
Jews also weeping which came with her, he groaned in the spirit, and was troubled. And said, Where have ye
laid him? They said unto him, Lord, come and see. Jesus wept."
Wisdom 1:12-14 "Seek not death in the error of your life, neither procure ye destruction by the works of your
hands. For God made not death, neither hath he pleasure in the destruction of the living. For he created all
things that they might be.."
St. Thomas Aquinas-"Of all human evils death is the most grievous, by which human life is destroyed...". ,
Compendium theologiae, lib. 1 cap. 227
First a definition: death is the separation of the soul from the body, a phenomenon we can't know has
happened with moral certainty until corruption has begun. "Death" does not mean the cessation of breathing
or heartbeat, nor does "brain death" mean that death has occured. The soul isn't "in" the heart, or "in" the
lungs, or "in the brain, or "in" any particular part of the body. The treatment of the dying, the apparently dead,
and their organs is goverened by this Truth.
Now, a person confronting death should receive the Sacrament of Unction for the possible restoration of
body (His will be done) and, most importantly, soul. This is of prime importance and should never be
neglected.
Other ways to help prepare the sick person for death are to pray the Holy Rosary (focusing on the Sorrowful
Mysteries), St. Joseph (the Patron of the dying) for a holy death, etc. -- with the sick person, if possible, or in
such a manner that he can hear you. This includes audible prayer for the unconscious; never think that those
who are unconscious or in a coma can't hear you!
The sick person should have a Crucifix (a St. Benedict Medal Crucifix, if possible) in view, perhaps to hold if
he can, and should be encouraged to offer up his sufferings and to trust in the love and mercy of our Lord
Jesus Christ. A lit blessed candle, as a symbol of the sick person's Baptism -- a symbol of sanctifying grace
and the promise of eternal life -- should be placed nearby so he can see the flame (unless oxygen tanks are
in use, of course!).
You'll note that the Catholic way of death is different from that of other "Christian" groups. We don't try to
sanitize it and avoid the topic. We don't speak in euphemisms about it. We don't take salvation for granted,
except the salvation of the souls of baptized children who've died before the age of reason (but we, of
course, trust in the mercy of God for all others). And we don't consider it a sin or, at the least, a faux-pas to
mourn. While we don't exactly "sit shiva," we don't see jumping up and down and singing happy songs as the
natural reaction to having to miss someone until one's own death. In other words, it's OK to rend garments
and weep; these things are not expressions of a "lack of faith," but are normal, natural reactions to the evil of
death, and to missing someone and realizing that it will be some time before you see him again, Deo volente.
It must be remembered that sickness and death are great, great evils; they were not "supposed" to be a part
of this world, and came about as a consequence of the sin of Adam. Christ, of course, conquered the tomb
and gives us the hope of eternal life. Catholics, then, look at death for what it is -- an evil -- but cling to the
hope He offers, trusting in His Divine Mercy while also realizing that He is Just. Christ Himself wept before
the dead Lazarus.
Now, the sick person shouldn't be denied the Truth of his situation any more than those around him should lie
to themselves. It is not a loving act to ignore reality out of fear of not wanting to alarm the sick one, and to do
so is to imperil his everlasting soul. The dying person needs to face his mortality, to repent, to pray, to
receive Unction, to be encouraged to trust totally in Jesus and His forgiveness and love, etc. He must
spiritually prepare himself for judgement, and to help him do this is the single greatest act of love you can
offer.
Ways of Comforting the Dying and Encouraging Him to Focus on Christ and His Passion
Throughout the dying person's time in his sick bed, it is good to offer to him short acclamations that
encourage the focus on Christ and the prayers of the Saints. Below are the ones listed in the 1958 St. Andrew
Daily Missal. Periodically whisper these prayers into the dying person's ears:
Into Thy hands, Lord, I commend my spirit.
O Lord Jesus Christ, receive my spirit.
Holy Mary, pray for me.
Holy Mary, Mother of grace, Mother of mercy, do thou defend me from the enemy, and receive me at the hour
of death.
It is recommended, too, to read the 18th and 19th chapters of the Gospel according to St. John to the dying,
helping him to focus on Christ.
Commending the Soul to God
As death approaches more closely, the sick person's soul should be commended to God. The following
traditional form is most beautiful:
Go forth, O Christian soul, ouf of this world, in the Name of God the Father almighty, Who created you; in the
Name of Jesus Christ, the Son of the living God, Who suffered for you; in the Name of the Holy Ghost, Who
sanctified you, in the name of the holy and glorious Mary, Virgin and Mother of God; in the name of the
angels, archangels, thrones and dominions, cherubim and seraphim; in the name of the patriarchs and
prophets, of the holy apostles and evangelists, of the holy martyrs, confessors, monks and hermits, of the
holy virgins, and of all the saints of God; may your place be this day in peace, and your abode in Holy Sion.
Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
O merciful and gracious God, O God, according to the multitude of Thy mercies Thou blotteth out the sins of
such as repent, and graciously remit the guilt of their past offenses, mercifully regard this Thy servant
(handmaid) N.____ and grant him (her) a full discharge from all his (her) sins, who with a contrite heart most
earnestly begs it of Thee. Renew, O merciful Father, whatever has been vitiated in him (her) by human frailty,
or by the frauds and deceits of the enemy: and associate him (her) as a member of redemption to the unity of
the body of the Church. Have compassion, Lord, on his (her) sighs, have compassion on his (her) tears; and
admit him (her), who has no hope but in Thy mercy, to the sacrament of Thy reconciliation. Through Christ
our Lord. Amen.
I commend you, dear Brother (Sister), to the almighty God, and consign you to the care of Him, whose
creature you are, that, when you shall have paid the debt of all mankind by death, you may return to thy
Maker, Who formed you from the dust of the earth. When, therefore, your soul shall depart from your body,
may the resplendent multitude of the angels meet you: may the court of the apostles receive you: may the
triumphant army of glorious martyrs come out to welcome you: may the splendid company of confessors
clad in their white robes encompass you: may the choir of joyful virgins reeceive you: and may you meet
with a blessed repose in the bosom of the patriarchs. May St. Joseph, the most sweet Patron of the dying,
comfort you with a great hope. May Mary, the holy Mother of God, lovingly cast upon you her eyes of mercy.
May Jesus Christ appear to you with a mild and joyful countenance, and appoint you a place among those
who are to stand before Him for ever. May you be a stranger to all that is punished with darkness, chastised
with flames, and condemned to torments. May the most wicked enemy, with all his evil spirits, be forced to
give way: may he tremble at your approach in the company of angels, and with confusion fly away into the
vast chaos of eternal night. Let God arise and His enemies be dispersed,, and let them that hate Him fly
before His Face, let themm vanish like smoke; and as wax that melts before the fire, so let sinners perish in
the sight of God; but may the just rejoice and be happy in His presence. May then all the legions of Hell be
connfounded and put to shame; and may none of the ministers of Satan dare to stop you in your way. May
Christ deliver you from torments, Who was crucified for you.. May He deliver you from eternal death, Who
vouchsafed to die for you. May Jesus Christ the Son of the living God place you in the ever-verdant lawns of
His Paradise; and may He, the true Shepherd, acknowledge you for one of His flock. May He absolve you
from all your sins, and place you at His right hand in the midst of His elect. May you see your Redeemer face
to face, and standing always in His presence, behold with happy eyes the most clear Truth. And may you be
placed among the company of the blessed and enjoy the sweetness of the contemplation of your God for
ever. Amen.
Receive, Lord, Thy servant (handmaid) into the place of salvation, which he (she) hopes to obtain through
Thy mercy.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) from all danger of Hell; and from all pain and tribulation.
R. Amen
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) as Thou didst deliver Enoch and Elias from the common
death of the world.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Abraham from the midst of the
Chaldeans.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Job from all his afflictions.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Isaac from being sacrificed by his
father.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Lot from being destroyed in the
flames of Sodom.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Moses from the hands of the Pharaoh,
King of Egypt.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant, as Thou didst deliver the three children from the fiery furnace, and
from the hands of an unmerciful king.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Susanna from her false accusers.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver David from the hands of Saul and
Goliath.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Peter and Paul out of prison.
R. Amen.
And as Thou didst deliver that blessed virgin and martyr, Saint Thecla, from three most cruel torments, so be
pleased to deliver the soul of this Thy servant, and bring it to the participation of Thy Heavenly joys.
R. Amen.
We commend to Thee, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) N.____, and we pray Thee, Lord Jesus Christ,
the Savior of the world, that as in mercy to him (her) Thou becamest man, so now Thou would be pleased to
admit him (her) to the bosom of Thy patriarchs. Remember, Lord, he (she) is Thy creature, not made by
strange gods, but by Thee, the only living and true God; for there is no other but Thee, and none can equal
Thy work. Let his (her) soul rejoice in Thy presence, and remember not his (her) former iniquities and
excesses, which he (she) has fallen into, through the violence of passion and the corruption of his (her)
nature. For although he (she) has sinned, yet he (she) has always firmly believed in the Father, Son and Holy
Ghost; he (she) has had a zeal for Thy honour, and faithfully adored Thee as his (her) God, and Creator of all
things. Remember not, Lord, we pray Thee, the sins of his (her) youth, and his (her) ignorances; but
according to Thy great mercy, be mindful of him (her) in Thy Heavenly glory. Let the heavens be opened to
him (her), and the angels rejoice with him (her). Let the archangel St. Michael, whom Thou didst appoint the
chief of the heavenly host, conduct him (her). Let the holy angels come out to meet him (her), and carry him
(her) to the city of heavenly Jerusalem. Let blessed Peter the apostle, to whom God gave the Keys of the
Kingdom of Heaven, receive him (her). Let St. Paul the apostle, who was a vessel of election, assist him (her).
Let St. John the beloved disciple, to whom the secrets of Heaven were revealed, intercede for him (her). Let
all the holy apostless, who received from Jesus Christ the power of binding and loosing, pray for him (her).
Let all the saints and elect of God, who in this world have suffered torments in the name of Christ, intercede
for him (her); that being freed from the prison of his (her) body, he (she) may be admitted into the glory of our
Lord Jesus Christ, Who with Thee and the Holy Ghost, lives and reigns, world without end. Amen.
Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary
May Mary the most merciful Virgin Mother of God, kindest comforter of them that mourn, commend to her
Son the soul of this His servant (handmaid), that through her maternal intercession, he (she) may overcome
the dread of death and, with her as guide, joyfully reach his (her) longed-for home in the heavenly fatherland.
R. Amen.
Prayer to St. Joseph
To thee I have recourse, St. Joseph, Patron of the dying; and to thee, at whose blessed death watchfully
assisted Jesus and Mary, by both these dearest pledges I earnestly recommend the soul of this servant
(handmaid) in the sufferings of his (her) last agony, that he (she) may by your protection be delivered from
the snares of the devil and from eternal death, and may merit to attain everlasting joy. Through the same
Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
Prayers Just after Death
After the soul has left the body, the following responsory is said:
R. Come to his assistance, all you Saints of God: meet him, al you Angels of God: receiving his soul, offering
it in the sight of the Most High. May Christ receive you, who hath called you, and may the Angels conduct you
to Abraham's bosom. Receiving his (her) soul and offering it in the sight of the Most High.
V. Eternal rest give to him (her), Lord: and let perpetual light shine upon him (her). Offering it in the sight of
the Most High.
Lord, have mercy.
Christ, have mercy.
Lord, have mercy.
[Our Father (silently)].....
V. ...and lead us not into temptation.
R. But deliver us from evil.
V. Eternal rest give to him (her), Lord.
R. And let perpetual light shine upon him (her).
V. From the gates of Hell.
R. Deliver his (her) soul, Lord.
V. May he (she) rest in peace.
R. Amen.
V. O Lord, hear my prayer.
R. And let my cry come to Thee.
V. The Lord be with you.
R. And with thy spirit.
Let us pray. To Thee, Lord, we commend the soul of your servant (handmaid) N.____, that being dead to this
world he (she) may live to Thee: and whatever sins he (she)( has committed in this life through human frailty,
do Thou in Thy most merciful goodness forgive. Through Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
Grant, O God, that while we lament the departure of this Thy servant (handmaid), we may always remember
that we are most certainly to follow him (her). And give us grace to prepare for that last hour by a good life,
that we may not be surprised by a sudden and unprovided death, but be ever watching, that, when Thou
callest, we may, with the Bridegroom, enter into eternal glory: through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Throughout the remainder of our lives, we pray for our dead.
already...Then when Mary was come where Jesus was, and saw him, she fell down at his feet, saying unto
him, Lord, if thou hadst been here, my brother had not died. When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the
Jews also weeping which came with her, he groaned in the spirit, and was troubled. And said, Where have ye
laid him? They said unto him, Lord, come and see. Jesus wept."
Wisdom 1:12-14 "Seek not death in the error of your life, neither procure ye destruction by the works of your
hands. For God made not death, neither hath he pleasure in the destruction of the living. For he created all
things that they might be.."
St. Thomas Aquinas-"Of all human evils death is the most grievous, by which human life is destroyed...". ,
Compendium theologiae, lib. 1 cap. 227
First a definition: death is the separation of the soul from the body, a phenomenon we can't know has
happened with moral certainty until corruption has begun. "Death" does not mean the cessation of breathing
or heartbeat, nor does "brain death" mean that death has occured. The soul isn't "in" the heart, or "in" the
lungs, or "in the brain, or "in" any particular part of the body. The treatment of the dying, the apparently dead,
and their organs is goverened by this Truth.
Now, a person confronting death should receive the Sacrament of Unction for the possible restoration of
body (His will be done) and, most importantly, soul. This is of prime importance and should never be
neglected.
Other ways to help prepare the sick person for death are to pray the Holy Rosary (focusing on the Sorrowful
Mysteries), St. Joseph (the Patron of the dying) for a holy death, etc. -- with the sick person, if possible, or in
such a manner that he can hear you. This includes audible prayer for the unconscious; never think that those
who are unconscious or in a coma can't hear you!
The sick person should have a Crucifix (a St. Benedict Medal Crucifix, if possible) in view, perhaps to hold if
he can, and should be encouraged to offer up his sufferings and to trust in the love and mercy of our Lord
Jesus Christ. A lit blessed candle, as a symbol of the sick person's Baptism -- a symbol of sanctifying grace
and the promise of eternal life -- should be placed nearby so he can see the flame (unless oxygen tanks are
in use, of course!).
You'll note that the Catholic way of death is different from that of other "Christian" groups. We don't try to
sanitize it and avoid the topic. We don't speak in euphemisms about it. We don't take salvation for granted,
except the salvation of the souls of baptized children who've died before the age of reason (but we, of
course, trust in the mercy of God for all others). And we don't consider it a sin or, at the least, a faux-pas to
mourn. While we don't exactly "sit shiva," we don't see jumping up and down and singing happy songs as the
natural reaction to having to miss someone until one's own death. In other words, it's OK to rend garments
and weep; these things are not expressions of a "lack of faith," but are normal, natural reactions to the evil of
death, and to missing someone and realizing that it will be some time before you see him again, Deo volente.
It must be remembered that sickness and death are great, great evils; they were not "supposed" to be a part
of this world, and came about as a consequence of the sin of Adam. Christ, of course, conquered the tomb
and gives us the hope of eternal life. Catholics, then, look at death for what it is -- an evil -- but cling to the
hope He offers, trusting in His Divine Mercy while also realizing that He is Just. Christ Himself wept before
the dead Lazarus.
Now, the sick person shouldn't be denied the Truth of his situation any more than those around him should lie
to themselves. It is not a loving act to ignore reality out of fear of not wanting to alarm the sick one, and to do
so is to imperil his everlasting soul. The dying person needs to face his mortality, to repent, to pray, to
receive Unction, to be encouraged to trust totally in Jesus and His forgiveness and love, etc. He must
spiritually prepare himself for judgement, and to help him do this is the single greatest act of love you can
offer.
Ways of Comforting the Dying and Encouraging Him to Focus on Christ and His Passion
Throughout the dying person's time in his sick bed, it is good to offer to him short acclamations that
encourage the focus on Christ and the prayers of the Saints. Below are the ones listed in the 1958 St. Andrew
Daily Missal. Periodically whisper these prayers into the dying person's ears:
Into Thy hands, Lord, I commend my spirit.
O Lord Jesus Christ, receive my spirit.
Holy Mary, pray for me.
Holy Mary, Mother of grace, Mother of mercy, do thou defend me from the enemy, and receive me at the hour
of death.
It is recommended, too, to read the 18th and 19th chapters of the Gospel according to St. John to the dying,
helping him to focus on Christ.
Commending the Soul to God
As death approaches more closely, the sick person's soul should be commended to God. The following
traditional form is most beautiful:
Go forth, O Christian soul, ouf of this world, in the Name of God the Father almighty, Who created you; in the
Name of Jesus Christ, the Son of the living God, Who suffered for you; in the Name of the Holy Ghost, Who
sanctified you, in the name of the holy and glorious Mary, Virgin and Mother of God; in the name of the
angels, archangels, thrones and dominions, cherubim and seraphim; in the name of the patriarchs and
prophets, of the holy apostles and evangelists, of the holy martyrs, confessors, monks and hermits, of the
holy virgins, and of all the saints of God; may your place be this day in peace, and your abode in Holy Sion.
Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
O merciful and gracious God, O God, according to the multitude of Thy mercies Thou blotteth out the sins of
such as repent, and graciously remit the guilt of their past offenses, mercifully regard this Thy servant
(handmaid) N.____ and grant him (her) a full discharge from all his (her) sins, who with a contrite heart most
earnestly begs it of Thee. Renew, O merciful Father, whatever has been vitiated in him (her) by human frailty,
or by the frauds and deceits of the enemy: and associate him (her) as a member of redemption to the unity of
the body of the Church. Have compassion, Lord, on his (her) sighs, have compassion on his (her) tears; and
admit him (her), who has no hope but in Thy mercy, to the sacrament of Thy reconciliation. Through Christ
our Lord. Amen.
I commend you, dear Brother (Sister), to the almighty God, and consign you to the care of Him, whose
creature you are, that, when you shall have paid the debt of all mankind by death, you may return to thy
Maker, Who formed you from the dust of the earth. When, therefore, your soul shall depart from your body,
may the resplendent multitude of the angels meet you: may the court of the apostles receive you: may the
triumphant army of glorious martyrs come out to welcome you: may the splendid company of confessors
clad in their white robes encompass you: may the choir of joyful virgins reeceive you: and may you meet
with a blessed repose in the bosom of the patriarchs. May St. Joseph, the most sweet Patron of the dying,
comfort you with a great hope. May Mary, the holy Mother of God, lovingly cast upon you her eyes of mercy.
May Jesus Christ appear to you with a mild and joyful countenance, and appoint you a place among those
who are to stand before Him for ever. May you be a stranger to all that is punished with darkness, chastised
with flames, and condemned to torments. May the most wicked enemy, with all his evil spirits, be forced to
give way: may he tremble at your approach in the company of angels, and with confusion fly away into the
vast chaos of eternal night. Let God arise and His enemies be dispersed,, and let them that hate Him fly
before His Face, let themm vanish like smoke; and as wax that melts before the fire, so let sinners perish in
the sight of God; but may the just rejoice and be happy in His presence. May then all the legions of Hell be
connfounded and put to shame; and may none of the ministers of Satan dare to stop you in your way. May
Christ deliver you from torments, Who was crucified for you.. May He deliver you from eternal death, Who
vouchsafed to die for you. May Jesus Christ the Son of the living God place you in the ever-verdant lawns of
His Paradise; and may He, the true Shepherd, acknowledge you for one of His flock. May He absolve you
from all your sins, and place you at His right hand in the midst of His elect. May you see your Redeemer face
to face, and standing always in His presence, behold with happy eyes the most clear Truth. And may you be
placed among the company of the blessed and enjoy the sweetness of the contemplation of your God for
ever. Amen.
Receive, Lord, Thy servant (handmaid) into the place of salvation, which he (she) hopes to obtain through
Thy mercy.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) from all danger of Hell; and from all pain and tribulation.
R. Amen
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) as Thou didst deliver Enoch and Elias from the common
death of the world.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Abraham from the midst of the
Chaldeans.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Job from all his afflictions.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Isaac from being sacrificed by his
father.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Lot from being destroyed in the
flames of Sodom.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Moses from the hands of the Pharaoh,
King of Egypt.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant, as Thou didst deliver the three children from the fiery furnace, and
from the hands of an unmerciful king.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Susanna from her false accusers.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver David from the hands of Saul and
Goliath.
R. Amen.
Deliver, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid), as Thou didst deliver Peter and Paul out of prison.
R. Amen.
And as Thou didst deliver that blessed virgin and martyr, Saint Thecla, from three most cruel torments, so be
pleased to deliver the soul of this Thy servant, and bring it to the participation of Thy Heavenly joys.
R. Amen.
We commend to Thee, Lord, the soul of Thy servant (handmaid) N.____, and we pray Thee, Lord Jesus Christ,
the Savior of the world, that as in mercy to him (her) Thou becamest man, so now Thou would be pleased to
admit him (her) to the bosom of Thy patriarchs. Remember, Lord, he (she) is Thy creature, not made by
strange gods, but by Thee, the only living and true God; for there is no other but Thee, and none can equal
Thy work. Let his (her) soul rejoice in Thy presence, and remember not his (her) former iniquities and
excesses, which he (she) has fallen into, through the violence of passion and the corruption of his (her)
nature. For although he (she) has sinned, yet he (she) has always firmly believed in the Father, Son and Holy
Ghost; he (she) has had a zeal for Thy honour, and faithfully adored Thee as his (her) God, and Creator of all
things. Remember not, Lord, we pray Thee, the sins of his (her) youth, and his (her) ignorances; but
according to Thy great mercy, be mindful of him (her) in Thy Heavenly glory. Let the heavens be opened to
him (her), and the angels rejoice with him (her). Let the archangel St. Michael, whom Thou didst appoint the
chief of the heavenly host, conduct him (her). Let the holy angels come out to meet him (her), and carry him
(her) to the city of heavenly Jerusalem. Let blessed Peter the apostle, to whom God gave the Keys of the
Kingdom of Heaven, receive him (her). Let St. Paul the apostle, who was a vessel of election, assist him (her).
Let St. John the beloved disciple, to whom the secrets of Heaven were revealed, intercede for him (her). Let
all the holy apostless, who received from Jesus Christ the power of binding and loosing, pray for him (her).
Let all the saints and elect of God, who in this world have suffered torments in the name of Christ, intercede
for him (her); that being freed from the prison of his (her) body, he (she) may be admitted into the glory of our
Lord Jesus Christ, Who with Thee and the Holy Ghost, lives and reigns, world without end. Amen.
Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary
May Mary the most merciful Virgin Mother of God, kindest comforter of them that mourn, commend to her
Son the soul of this His servant (handmaid), that through her maternal intercession, he (she) may overcome
the dread of death and, with her as guide, joyfully reach his (her) longed-for home in the heavenly fatherland.
R. Amen.
Prayer to St. Joseph
To thee I have recourse, St. Joseph, Patron of the dying; and to thee, at whose blessed death watchfully
assisted Jesus and Mary, by both these dearest pledges I earnestly recommend the soul of this servant
(handmaid) in the sufferings of his (her) last agony, that he (she) may by your protection be delivered from
the snares of the devil and from eternal death, and may merit to attain everlasting joy. Through the same
Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
Prayers Just after Death
After the soul has left the body, the following responsory is said:
R. Come to his assistance, all you Saints of God: meet him, al you Angels of God: receiving his soul, offering
it in the sight of the Most High. May Christ receive you, who hath called you, and may the Angels conduct you
to Abraham's bosom. Receiving his (her) soul and offering it in the sight of the Most High.
V. Eternal rest give to him (her), Lord: and let perpetual light shine upon him (her). Offering it in the sight of
the Most High.
Lord, have mercy.
Christ, have mercy.
Lord, have mercy.
[Our Father (silently)].....
V. ...and lead us not into temptation.
R. But deliver us from evil.
V. Eternal rest give to him (her), Lord.
R. And let perpetual light shine upon him (her).
V. From the gates of Hell.
R. Deliver his (her) soul, Lord.
V. May he (she) rest in peace.
R. Amen.
V. O Lord, hear my prayer.
R. And let my cry come to Thee.
V. The Lord be with you.
R. And with thy spirit.
Let us pray. To Thee, Lord, we commend the soul of your servant (handmaid) N.____, that being dead to this
world he (she) may live to Thee: and whatever sins he (she)( has committed in this life through human frailty,
do Thou in Thy most merciful goodness forgive. Through Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
Grant, O God, that while we lament the departure of this Thy servant (handmaid), we may always remember
that we are most certainly to follow him (her). And give us grace to prepare for that last hour by a good life,
that we may not be surprised by a sudden and unprovided death, but be ever watching, that, when Thou
callest, we may, with the Bridegroom, enter into eternal glory: through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Throughout the remainder of our lives, we pray for our dead.